Get him back even if he dating
I asked him if he still loved me but he went offline. Right now you feel like your missing a part of yourself. You need to build a firm foundation for yourself – you need to become a better, stronger, more fulfilled version of yourself.
When a guy says he doesn’t want a relationship, he means it. Before you can have a relationship with him or anyone else, you need to: a) Love yourself b) Love your life c) Feel completely full and content within your own life, with or without a relationship with a man Once you are truly at that point, you are ready to be in a relationship. Moreover, when a guy leaves you and you go chasing after him, he knows that he can have you when he wants you.
I know I came across needy over the last couple of months and am wondering if there’s anything I can do to get him back. MORE: Why Guys Withdraw Men don’t want an audience for this.
I can tell you firsthand that when people try to probe why I am being distant, it feels very invasive to me and I withdraw even further.
He said it’s his choice and told me not to bring it up again. But all that’s going to do is make you want to chase him and in response, will cause him to run faster and further away. Any man, whether it’s your ex or a new guy, wants to be with a woman who is confident, happy and fulfilled in her own life as it is.
I asked if we could still be good friends and he said yes. If you instead turn your attentions to your own life, you’ll be far better off. At the moment, I don’t feel like you possess any of those three things.
Not only is this not the case, but it also completely undermines your ability to be happy in the meantime. I can guarantee that if you go chasing your ex, you will not only chase him away, but you will land yourself more deeply into emotional despair. We’ve all been there – heartbreak is part of the game of love.