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The key insight here is that, as Soh puts it, “[s]tudies in sexology have shown that if a man likes something sexually, he really likes it, and probably always will.

In the context of a paraphilia, which is defined as an atypical or unusual sexual interest, it will be his primary sexual interest over the course of his life.” So in the case of men with “coercive paraphilia” — that is, those who are aroused by “non-consensual sadistic acts, such as humiliating, degrading, or physically hurting” a partner, as opposed, importantly, to participating in or other similar activities — this indicates a deep-seated characteristic that is not going away, that is a key part of who they are as sexual beings.“From a scientific perspective, there is no evidence to suggest that a man’s sexual preferences can be changed,” Soh writes, “even if he is deathly afraid of losing his partner.

After ruling out bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder as the underlying condition (as high-frequency sexual behaviour is a common symptom of these disorders), this is what I have found.

Men with problems with masturbation will spend inordinate amounts of time, up to 12 hours a day in some cases, viewing pornography or interacting sexually through chat rooms, social media, dating apps, and webcam.

If you think you might be hypersexual, ask yourself if your sexual behaviours cause you harm or distress, or impairment in your day-to-day functioning.