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When I was on a date, I'd ask a bunch of questions - because I'm supposed to show interest in her in some way.After a while I started being a little "flexible" with the truth.
I lost her trust by being too intense with the player vibe. You can find a thousand techniques out there, and only a handful that actually work for you. I wasn't very original, and I started feeling and acting like a clone instead of being unique.
My game was actually WORSE when I was using pickup techniques than when I was just being "myself." I've heard from a lot of guys that picked up a copy of the book "The Game" telling me that none of the lines and openers they got from it work anymore because ALL the guys are using these techniques. These routines and techniques that guys teach on TV reality shows are just to give you of the type of things that women find interesting, and the word-for-word routines are not meant to be parroted to every woman you see. You can learn to play a Led Zeppelin tune or two if you want, and you'll sound like Jimmy Page. And that's how using routines and lines can actually cripple your success with women, because you are undermining your belief and confidence in yourself by using borrowed words.
Long after all the clever pickup lines and approaches have been exposed, You can't get caught using one of these "techniques" if you're always being YOU. No matter how many techniques you learn, you will always end up back here with me working on your inner game.
No technique in the world create this strength of foundation you'll get from complete self-confidence.
(In fact, the guy who was trying to model the successful guy often had a much tougher time in the long run.